Be the Best Kisser Ever
By Shanae Bass
Kissing is definitely an art form that requires a certain amount of skill and even a level of concentration, but it’s not rocket science. What will make you a great kisser is not how fast you can move your tongue around or how far it can reach, but instead your ability to communicate your desire to your partner without using words, effectively. That being your goal, the key to great kissing is going with the flow and letting the “conversation” build naturally.
One of the biggest mistakes we make when exploring our lip-locking abilities is thinking too intensely. Am I doing it right? Will he think I’m doing it weird? Or worse, how do I look? Often, you might be picturing the way it’s “supposed” to look and set on emulating a passionate scene in Gone with the Wind. Don’t do it! You will only make yourself more self-conscious and a nervous wreck. Alright, you don’t want to go in flopping your tongue around like a dead fish and wide-eyed like a dear caught in headlights, no one enjoys a sloppy kisser. So, concentration and control is necessary. Relax, take your time and eventually a rhythm will develop that you both can follow in the moment.
Every kiss and kisser is unique. The nature of a kiss has a lot to do with the setting and even the mood when it happens. When you want to test out your skills, be spontaneous and daring. Taking control of the kissing game can help build your confidence in your kiss each time. This may involve using your tongue more, getting creative and being fearless. Sometimes it’s even more thrilling to slow the kiss down. Taking it really slow can actually heighten the intensity and desire behind the kiss.
Much like anything else, if you want to become a great kisser, it will take practice. Each time you will learn more about your preference of kissing and what your man likes as well. If you still feel awkward or unsure about the way you kiss, keep practicing. Don’t just be a kisser, but be kissed and enjoy the ride. Kissing is fun and one of the quickest gateways to a world of pleasure.